Koifuda Reading: His True Feelings When Communication Drops
Exploring the true feelings of a partner in a secret relationship. A 3-card spread featuring reversed 体・性・不, reversed 仲・無・学, and upright 女・職・恋.
A spread exploring the true feelings of a partner in a secret relationship who hasn't been communicating much recently, using three cards.
Spread Breakdown
体・性・不
ReversedA platonic state. They lack physical confidence, feel unwell, or have inner conflicts, making them passive towards intimacy.
仲・無・学
ReversedLack of communication. Despite being close, there is frustration from not being able to express their true feelings clearly or having nuances misunderstood.
女・職・恋
UprightHeavy idealization and admiration. They respect and love you as an ideal, independent, and incredibly beautiful woman, almost like a model.
Video Transcript & Explanation
Left Card: Lack of Physical Confidence
"The left card is 'Body/Sex/Un-', which is about physicality. Reversed, it means they aren't seeking intimacy, or they lack physical confidence, feel unwell, or are too tired to be in the mood.
They might be able to hold you, but they can't quite bring out their masculine vitality. It's the vibe of a man lacking energy right now."
Center Card: Lack of Communication and Hidden True Feelings
"In the center, reversed 'Friend/Rhino' means a lack of communication. They haven't contacted you much, to the point you doubt if they like you. They know they haven't reached out and that a long time has passed, but they just can't say their true feelings.
When you aren't communicating, it creates this frustrating situation where they can't convey what they really mean."
Right Card: Intense Idealization in the Subconscious
"On the right is the subconscious: Woman/Work/Love. It's a romance card, so they definitely like you. They deeply respect you as an ideal, strong, and independent woman.
However, they are idealizing you too much. It's like looking at a model—they think 'She's so beautiful, she would never give someone like me the time of day.'
When people spend time apart, they project their ideals onto the other person. So if you just casually offer to meet for tea, things will likely return to normal."
Decks Used in This Reading
Frequently Asked Questions / FAQ
Q: How is 'Koifuda' different from tarot cards?
The biggest difference is its 'overwhelming simplicity.' With only 14 carefully selected cards, it's easy to memorize the meanings, even if you've struggled with traditional tarot. You can start using it professionally from the day it arrives.
Q: What can I divine with 'Koifuda'?
It specializes in divining your partner's feelings during romance and your own feelings toward them. It can provide detailed insights from surface awareness to deep inner truths.
Q: Are there things I cannot divine with 'Koifuda'?
You cannot divine matters not directly related to romantic emotions, such as other relationships (family, friends), work, health, money, or global events.
Q: Can I combine these with Tarot or other Oracle cards?
Yes, you can. Using Koifuda to pinpoint 'the partner's inner truth' while reading the overall flow with Tarot is highly praised by professional diviners for adding depth to their consultations.
Q: With only 14 cards, can it really capture the nuances of complex relationships?
Koifuda consists of 14 cards that condense the 'core' emotions of romance. Because of the limited number, the combinations become clear, allowing you to sharply derive the 'partner's true feelings' that often remain vague.
Q: Can I divine 'timing' with this deck?
Yes, but it is considered an 'irregular use.' Since human emotions rarely change drastically over short periods, the creator (Ririo) seldom uses it for timing. However, if you wish to see the 'flow of emotions,' you can draw cards at your own set intervals, such as once a week.
Q: What should I do if the reading result is negative?
The cards reflect the current flow, but it is not a fixed future. By referring to the advice cards and slightly changing your current actions, it is possible to turn the future for the better.
Q: Can I use these for complex relationships (reconciliation, secret love)?
Yes. Obsidian Room decks (especially Koifuda) are specialized in reading deep inner feelings and complex emotional nuances, providing close support for concerns that are difficult to discuss with others.