Koifuda Reading: Ex-boyfriend's Feelings - Is Reconciliation Possible?
A reading example exploring an ex-boyfriend's feelings and the possibility of reconciliation. Detailed guide by the creator of Koifuda.
In this reading, we explore the theme "Ex-boyfriend's feelings: Is reconciliation possible?". We deeply analyze past emotions, the current situation, and future possibilities using Koifuda.
Spread Breakdown
婚・家・恋
UprightOfficial partner. A strong past bond where you were deeply connected with a promising future.
石・維・友
ReversedBreaking through the status quo. The energy to break the friend zone framework and move the relationship again.
離・無・砂
UprightA huge sense of distance. Two very distant beings, but destined for better or worse.
Video Transcript & Explanation
Left Card: 婚・家・恋 (Upright) - Official partner
"The leftmost card is 婚・家・恋 upright. This shows that you were once deeply connected as official partners with a promising future.
It suggests that for your partner, you were not just an ex-lover, but someone highly significant whom they considered for marriage or a family."
Center Card: 石・維・友 (Reversed) - Breaking through the status quo
"The center card is 石・維・友 reversed. Normally, this card means not considering anything above the friend zone, but being reversed generates a strong energy of "breaking through the status quo".
We can catch glimpses of your partner's subconscious desire to break the current stagnant relationship or the framework of being just friends, and to move the relationship forward again."
Right Card: 離・無・砂 (Upright) - A huge sense of distance
"Finally, the card on the right is 離・無・砂 upright. For future developments, this suggests that a huge sense of distance will still remain between you two.
But there is no need to be pessimistic. You are two very distant beings, but this is destined for better or worse. Having the will to break the status quo while taking time without rushing will be the key to reconciliation."
Decks Used in This Reading
Frequently Asked Questions / FAQ
Q: How is 'Koifuda' different from tarot cards?
The biggest difference is its 'overwhelming simplicity.' With only 14 carefully selected cards, it's easy to memorize the meanings, even if you've struggled with traditional tarot. You can start using it professionally from the day it arrives.
Q: What can I divine with 'Koifuda'?
It specializes in divining your partner's feelings during romance and your own feelings toward them. It can provide detailed insights from surface awareness to deep inner truths.
Q: Are there things I cannot divine with 'Koifuda'?
You cannot divine matters not directly related to romantic emotions, such as other relationships (family, friends), work, health, money, or global events.
Q: Can I combine these with Tarot or other Oracle cards?
Yes, you can. Using Koifuda to pinpoint 'the partner's inner truth' while reading the overall flow with Tarot is highly praised by professional diviners for adding depth to their consultations.
Q: With only 14 cards, can it really capture the nuances of complex relationships?
Koifuda consists of 14 cards that condense the 'core' emotions of romance. Because of the limited number, the combinations become clear, allowing you to sharply derive the 'partner's true feelings' that often remain vague.
Q: Can I divine 'timing' with this deck?
Yes, but it is considered an 'irregular use.' Since human emotions rarely change drastically over short periods, the creator (Ririo) seldom uses it for timing. However, if you wish to see the 'flow of emotions,' you can draw cards at your own set intervals, such as once a week.
Q: What should I do if the reading result is negative?
The cards reflect the current flow, but it is not a fixed future. By referring to the advice cards and slightly changing your current actions, it is possible to turn the future for the better.
Q: Can I use these for complex relationships (reconciliation, secret love)?
Yes. Obsidian Room decks (especially Koifuda) are specialized in reading deep inner feelings and complex emotional nuances, providing close support for concerns that are difficult to discuss with others.